Who is Ashley St. Clair, the Mother of Elon Musk's 13th Child? Details of Her Relationship with the Tesla CEO Revealed

In February 2025, Ashley St. Clair made an unexpected and bold announcement that sent shockwaves through the media. The author and outspoken conservative influencer revealed that she had welcomed a son with Tesla and SpaceX CEO Elon Musk. In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), St. Clair disclosed that she and Musk share a child, who goes by the name R.S.C. 

The news came with an immediate sense of privacy protection, as St. Clair had refrained from publicly sharing the information before, citing concerns for her child’s safety and well-being. However, as the media began to catch wind of the story, she decided to go public to prevent the tabloid media from spreading the news, regardless of the potential harm it might cause.

"I have not previously disclosed this to protect our child's privacy and safety, but in recent days it has become clear that tabloid media intends to do so, regardless of the harm it will cause," St. Clair wrote. "I intend to allow our child to grow in a normal and safe environment."

Elon Musk, known for his vast business empire and social media presence, has yet to publicly acknowledge or confirm the claims made by St. Clair. The Tesla CEO’s silence has left many speculating about the relationship between the two and whether Musk will step forward to confirm his involvement in their son’s life. Despite Musk’s refusal to comment on the matter, St. Clair is pressing forward with legal action, filing a petition for sole custody of their child.

As of now, Musk has not responded to any requests for comment from media outlets, fueling further curiosity about the situation. St. Clair’s lawsuit for sole custody stems from what she describes as Musk’s lack of involvement in their son’s upbringing.

She claims that he was not present at the birth of their son and has met him only three times since then. Additionally, St. Clair asserts that Musk has not contributed to their child's care or upbringing in any meaningful way. These assertions are at the core of the legal battle, as St. Clair seeks to gain full control over the care and upbringing of their child.

In her filing, St. Clair also highlighted the complex family dynamics surrounding Musk. The SpaceX CEO is no stranger to large families, with 13 other children from different partners, including Shivon Zilis, Grimes, and Justine Wilson. This number has raised questions about Musk’s commitment to his role as a father, especially as he continues to gain attention for his high-profile business ventures and outspoken personality.

St. Clair’s revelation has also had a ripple effect within Musk’s family. His estranged daughter, Vivian Wilson, shared her reaction to the news on TikTok the day after St. Clair’s announcement. Vivian, who has long been estranged from her father, revealed that this was the second time she learned of a half-sibling through social media, adding a layer of intrigue and tension to the already strained family relationships.

“Wow, if I had a nickel for every time I found out I had half-siblings through Reddit, I’d have two nickels … which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it’s happened twice, right?” Vivian wrote, expressing her surprise at learning about the new family member via social media.

St. Clair’s relationship with Musk, which has been under intense scrutiny since her announcement, is marked by an unlikely and somewhat unconventional beginning. According to St. Clair, she and Musk first connected on X, the social media platform Musk acquired in 2022.

Their interactions began with memes and humorous exchanges, which quickly evolved into direct messages. While St. Clair was familiar with Musk due to a friend who frequently showed her videos of SpaceX rocket launches, she admitted that she didn’t have a strong personal interest in him at the time.

However, things changed when St. Clair flew to San Francisco to interview Musk for Babylon Bee, a conservative satirical website where she was working at the time. During the interview, St. Clair and Musk developed a deeper connection, and after the meeting, Musk texted her, asking if she would be interested in traveling to Providence, Rhode Island, that same night.

St. Clair claims that this impromptu trip marked the beginning of their romantic relationship.

As St. Clair shared with the New York Post, Musk’s charm and down-to-earth demeanor played a significant role in their connection. "Musk was very funny. He was smart. He was very down to earth," St. Clair said. Their bond grew stronger, and in September 2024, she gave birth to their son, R.S.C.

While St. Clair has been open about her relationship with Musk, her life outside of her connection to the tech mogul is equally important to her. St. Clair is a mother of two, with a son from a previous relationship. She has always prioritized her children’s well-being and has made it clear that they come first in her life. Following the announcement of her son with Musk, a source close to St. Clair told PEOPLE that she is now taking time away from the spotlight to focus on her family and her children.

“It’s been a difficult time, but Ashley is focusing on caring for her children, which are and always have been her priority,” the source said. “She adores them and is committed to them.”

In addition to her role as a mother, St. Clair is also known for her strong conservative views. She has been an outspoken supporter of conservative ideologies, particularly around the topic of declining birth rates. In September 2023, she appeared on Fox News to share her perspective on the issue. St. Clair has also made a name for herself as an author, with her best-known work being Elephants Are Not Birds, a children’s book published by BRAVE Books, a company that partners with individuals who share conservative values.

Despite the whirlwind of media attention surrounding her relationship with Musk and her custody battle, St. Clair remains focused on protecting her children’s privacy and ensuring that they grow up in a safe and nurturing environment. Her legal battle with Musk continues to unfold, with the outcome of her petition for sole custody still uncertain.

However, one thing is clear: St. Clair is determined to fight for her children’s best interests, no matter the public scrutiny or personal challenges she faces.

As the world watches the drama surrounding Ashley St. Clair and Elon Musk’s relationship, one thing remains certain: St. Clair is a woman who fiercely defends her family and values, no matter the cost. The custody battle for their son, R.S.C., will undoubtedly continue to draw attention, as St. Clair fights to ensure her child’s well-being and protect their privacy.